My sister met this guy 2 weeks ago and I thought he was cool, but when we went to Ruby Tuesday's for a Friday night dinner with our mom, my mom wanted to know stuff about her new boyfriend and my sis told us that he has 5 kids by 4 different women. She also said that he became a father at 16 and he doesn't pay child support for any of them because he has no job. My mom and I shook our heads and asked why would she deal with guys like this and she can do much better than him. My sister is 19, she has no kids on her own yet and she's working at CVS and going to school to be a nurse. My mom wants her to dump him ASAP before she become his 5th baby mama and she'll end up taking care of her all by herself since he has no job.
“I Love My Man & Want A Life With Him, But His Baby Momma Won’t Move On!”
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Last Updated: March 22, References. Lauren Urban is a licensed psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York, with over 13 years of therapy experience working with children, families, couples, and individuals. There are 35 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been viewed , times.
This is why women won’t date a man with a baby mama
I did this once and, let me tell you, I learned my lesson. I dated The Cop off-and-on for about six years and I have to admit that love kept me from realizing just how big a problem his children were in our relationship. Recently, he and I made plans to have a friendly, totally platonic drink to celebrate my promotion. I totally understood why he had to cancel, but the situation also reminded me why he and I could never work and why I will never date a man with children again.
So many women have entered into relationships with men who have children thinking it would not be a factor only to discover it can be a major source of conflict in the relationship. If you are a young woman who's considering a relationship with a man with children, here are some things you need to keep in mind:. If his child ren never interrupt his life, he is not parenting, he's visiting. So many single young women who do not have children of their own jump at a chance to be with a man who says he has kids but still seems to have plenty of time to wine, dine and cuddle up. If he's with you all the time, then when exactly is he with his children?